It is nice being an alpha female. I am aware of this because I am one. We give opinions, tough headed, stubborn and men misjudge us. We are independent as well as very passionate. These are the reasons why our dating lives are very complicated. We are not submissive therefore getting a man who can understand our characters is not easy.
Below are Alpha females’ struggles:
- WE POSSESS SMART MOUTHS
We are sarcastic about anything. We can firmly make a non- lady like comments or opinions without fear. Men who can’t date us interpret this as being bitchy and always think we are requesting for sex.
- WE SPEAK URF MINDS FREELY
We give our opinions freely and we don’t hesitate to air our grievances especially how we feel about a particular issue. It is quite unfortunate that they prefer that we ride along and acknowledge their behaviors instead of speaking about them.
- WE ARE THE LEADERS AND THAT SCARES SOME MEN AWAY
An alpha female is aware of her needs and always go for it. We do things according to our moods. We want men who can deal with this and not feel threatened by it. We are those kinds of girls who get things done.
- WE’RE NOT AMAZED BY CLICHÉ ROMANCE
The alpha female prefers passion over romance. Rather than being given flowers, give us those long passionate kisses that lead to something awesome than vanilla dates.
- WE ARE CHALLENGING
We confidently argue with our men. They hate losing a debate and so do we. Have an intelligent debate is good and we don’t see anything wrong with that. We have our thoughts and opinions and if males find it hard to deal with that, oh well.
- WE ARE TRUTHFUL
We give honest views of every situation. If we don’t agree with anything we say it. If we do we say it too. We can discuss honest things than not being honest to ourselves and who we actually are.
- WE DEAL WITH OUR PROBLEMS ON OUR OWN
We don’t mind being helped by a man when we have problems but if he’s not around then we can definitely solve them on our own and not complain about it.
- THE FACT THAT WE ARE TRULY BUSY DISTURBS OUR SUITORS
We are good at whatever we do and do it all heartedly. We locate time to do what we like and want to do.